This minor dojo incident is embedded in my memory. Minor it may have been but the outcomes will be of immense consequence for some.
During a class, a geek who had not been training for about five years, was practicing with a retired battlefield hardened warrior of immense field and dojo experience paralleled only by a few.
This true gentleman was being kind and, as he does, modulating so that the uncoordinated, lazy, nerd could recapture the years of lost training.
I could not help hear the conversation.
In another world I would have personally trained with the arrogant geek and made sure that if he did ever deign to come back, his ego would be left at the mortuary before ever setting foot in this dojo. The true Budo tradition requires it, if you want that student to return alive from service in the field.
Better the ego killed in dojo than the asset in the field. But some people choose to remain liabilities, even to themselves. It feels more comfortable.
In this instance, it did not matter so much. The nerd serves society quite well in his field of keyboards and screen. He would never be chosen as being fit for matters of real world consequence.
So I let it go as he being in good hands.
But it again caught my attention, based on his executive knowledge of nothing but a keypad, this ignorant fellow kept insisting on doing the technique wrong. The senior was being too kind and trying to explain verbally. A fatal error. Only object lessons sustain in Budo.
Any Japanese of my era would have educatively hurt the guy and kept hurting him for the duration of the class until he either got it or left.
But our gentleman warrior friend is often too kind.
So he tried to verbally correct the nerd. Who responded arrogantly, “I DON”T THINK SO!
I was truly surprised that warrior did not drop him, HARD!
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“It’s only me!” How often do you hear this? Only! Only?
Some of my Aikido students have worked in security related professions. One in particular stands out. I’ll call him D… to protect his professional anonymity.
When cowards meet in the field of combat nothing happens. They all slink away.
The Founder of Aikido, Morihei Ueshuba, had it right. He explained the techniques non-verbally. My best teachers including Seiichi Sugano also minimized words in the dojo. But they exemplified impeccably with Ki no Musubi. And this functionally. Proven so. No room for “war stories” here but this kinesthetic teaching method speeds up the skill curves exponentially EVEN BEFORE YOUR INTELLECT HAS CAUGHT UP.
When we hear about violence, often “the street” is mentioned, as if that’s the only place that violence takes place. Well I’m here to disillusion you. Only a small percentage of violence takes pace in the mythical “street.” But it is often serious, so not to be taken lightly.
For millions of years, preceded by billions, certain predispositions of physics and cause and effect tried, tested, proved and became habituated as foundational instincts.
Appropriate preemption is a rare thing because it requires a measure of clarity that some people imagine as “mind reading.” Not so. It is the clear and lucid reading of intention which makes itself available with regular practice of good budo, especially Aiki Budo where your practice partners know how to attack without telegraphing as do beginners and the unskilled.