The vilest people in the world revel in blame, making excuses, finger pointing and passing the buck, gossip and throwing mud. In so doing they slowly and eventually destroy themselves, but sadly also do a lot of harm on the way. I’ve known of instructors who after inflicting injury on a student, then try to make the victim feel at fault.
If there is any injury in the dojo, who is to blame, the instructor or the victim?
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“His work in the field of ‘spiritual emergency’ has resulted in this condition no longer being viewed as a psychopathological disorder, but rather one now recognized in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual- DSM-IV (which, as he notes, everyone calls “the Bible of mental illness”) as a valid psychological emergency. This critical work has helped end the pathologizing of a spiritual emergency or crisis—situations that can result from any number of body/mind practices such as yoga, meditation and qigong as well as from life changes.
“The Sempai – Kohai relationship is an integral part of Japanese societal structure. The word “Sempai” can be understood to mean your senior (someone who is senior to you in rank, or if the same rank, senior to you in experience). The word “Kohai” can be understood to mean your junior. I speak about these two roles in terms of an important relationship that exists in a healthy dojo environment.
“I am always surprised and somewhat saddened to see Aikido students stop coming to class to train at the dojo when they sustain any injury, only to return once that injury is healed. Incurring an injury simply means, to me, that I must train differently until I am able to return to the mat. I regret that some students miss out on the total experience of Aikido; that, in my opinion, they don’t quite understand or embrace the comprehensive value and benefit of Aikido. I regret that they perceive Aikido only as a physical art and not as a way of life.
“Woke up to all three of your mails this morning and the glad tidings… I don’t know if you post praise on your site or not, but here goes. I found your site listed on a blog, which was heavily criticizing a company I’d just bought something from. The criticisms were spot on. Your site was held up as a model of how an internet site should be run and so it is. So to everyone out there, use this site to the limit. At some stage I’ll get around to subscribing as well. So thank you for all your efforts to sort this order out, good luck and prosperity in the future.”
“Aikido really is quite simple! It follows the laws of nature and hence is based on every day movements. Yet we often tend to complicate matters both physically and mentally.
“What is “reality” when it comes to training? Does “reality” mean that each encounter on the mat has a true life and death outcome? Not in my training. My instructor is normally terse but he has shared one piece of advice that I rehash in my mind regularly. Paraphrasing, he said something to the effect, “…at your level, both you and I are responsible for maintaining a martial sense on the mat. It’s my job to create the proper atmosphere that demands and fosters constant awareness with an appropriate level of intensity and it is your job to make use of this. For example, what this could mean is that you must not take for granted that a hand is just a hand. A hand can be a knife. It can be a broken bottle or a club or a foot or a chair. Visualization of this type will help build martial awareness……” What am I getting at? That in class, nobody pulls out a live blade and tries to cut me. Does this make my training any less “real”? If I am training properly (which I don’t always do because it’s very difficult) then NO I don’t believe that it does.
“When we first start training aikido it can all seem a bit overwhelming. There’s a lot to take on board & our minds are a little overloaded. Hopefully, these hints & tips will help to clarify things by removing some of the ‘noise’ (excessive thoughts & superfluous movements) that can distract you when training in the dojo.
“Ever had a co-worker, or perhaps a business phone call from someone, who wanted to attack you but still appear professional? Throughout your interaction they keep throwing out feints or thinly-veiled attacks… If you’ve ever had a job then you know the type.
“This weekend John Stevens, a 7th dan Aikikai and Buddhist priest came to our dojo, Bay Marin Aikido. Stevens, who has written over thirty books on Buddhism, Aikido and Asian culture, is considered one of the foremost authorities on Aikido. The experience was enriching, wild-hearted and intense.
” Morihiro Saito Sensei: The main difference is surely that there are no tournaments or competitions in aikido. The Founder studied a variety of different martial arts, competed against many other disciplines and realized that competition is not necessary. The aim is to create, with the assistance of the traditional budo style of aikido, a beautiful world that is like the house of a big family; to never compete again. The Founder wrote a poem that says, “This beautiful form of heaven and earth is a single family created by the guardian spirit.” This world is like the house of a big family. This is the feeling of aikido.
“In September the sun slid into the dojo through the western windows as we began Aikido class and the red light of sunset was reflected in the mirrors as we ended. We opened all the windows and welcomed the cool breeze against our sweaty skin and flushed faces. In February I struggled to keep my hat and socks on as long as possible in the drafty women’s changing room, then ran to the mat and let the industrial-style heater blow my hair back and warm my toes. Now it is March and a short warm spell allows us to imagine the day when we will be opening the windows again.